Paying for Long Term Care- Are You Prepared?

Questions about long term care?Americans are doing little to prepare for long term care and are not very concerned.  And maybe they don’t need to be concerned— because they need to be terrified!  A recent poll released by AP-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research, and reported in the national media, verified a major factor contributing to the long term care funding crisis in this country: Two out of every three people over the age of 40, according to the poll, have made no plans about long term care and it is a topic they prefer to not consider.  The irony is that seven out of ten people will need long term care services once they pass the age of 65.  The poll also showed the continuing lack of understanding about how long term care is funded.  Misconceptions continue that Medicare will pay for anything more than 100 days of skilled nursing rehabilitation care.  Health insurance plans don’t cover long term care services, long term care insurance is limited and restrictive in coverage, and Medicaid will only cover long term care (primarily nursing home) once a recipient has spent-down their assets to below the poverty level.

The growing population of Boomers retiring, and seniors requiring long term care services is creating enormous pressure on the system and an urgent drive to find new private pay solutions.  One private pay resource that is on the rise is converting life insurance policies into Long Term Care Benefits.  Millions of seniors own life insurance policies that they are in danger of abandoning without realizing they could quickly and easily convert the policy into a monthly Long Term Care Benefit Plan.  These Benefit Plans will pay for any form of long term care service including homecare, assisted living, and skilled nursing care; and any type of life insurance policy will qualify for conversion.

Private Pay Solutions Emerge

The long term care industry has been quick to embrace this concept and today thousands of assisted living communities, nursing homes and home health companies accept this funding method.  Political leaders too have begun to realize the cost saving implications for their beleaguered Medicaid budgets by extending the time a person could remain private pay before becoming Medicaid eligible through the conversion of a life insurance policy as an alternative to abandoning the policy through lapse or surrender.

Medicaid is a government program designed to help cover health care costs for the indigent (poor), disabled and children and/or dependents.  The eligibility process is determined by asset and income levels that would measure an applicant as being below the poverty level.  One of the assets that will count against a Medicaid applicant is a life insurance policy.  The owner of the policy must surrender the policy for any cash value and spend it down on care, or if the policy has no cash value and the owner keeps it the estate will be subject to federally mandated asset recovery probate action against the death benefit collected by the estate to claw back all Medicaid expenditures.  Because of this reality, financial planners, elder law attorney’s and geriatric care advisors have provided seniors and their families with the default guidance that in the case of ownership of life insurance policy (not including funeral policy exemptions), a life insurance policy still owned by the senior inside the 5 year look back period should be abandoned.

Political Support Arrives Just in Time

States are now coming to the realization that there is a much higher value found through the conversion of a life policy that can be deployed to extend private-pay as a Long Term Care Benefit Plan.  Any owner of a life insurance policy has the legal right to convert it into a Long Term Care Benefit Plan.  In 2010, the National Conference of Insurance Legislators (NCOIL) passed a national consumer protection model law that would mandate life insurance companies must disclose to policy owners about their legal right to convert their life insurance policies instead of abandoning them via lapse or surrender.  The life insurance industry opposes anything that would discourage policy owners’ from abandoning their life insurance (because life insurance companies make huge profits off of seniors that have paid premiums for years and then abandon their policies in the last years of their life).

Since passage of the NCOIL national model law; legislation has been introduced in numerous states to empower Medicaid departments to educate citizens that the conversion of their life insurance policies is their legal right and a better option than abandonment of their policies.  As of May 2013, the states of FL, TX, KY, LA, and ME have introduced this legislation and numerous other states are preparing to introduce the same bill for enactment.  Over the course of this year and next, people will continue to become more aware of their option to convert a life insurance policy to pay for long term care.  All across the country the long term care industry and political leaders are looking for private pay options that not only help people pay for long term care, but save the tax payer money by delaying Medicaid eligibility.

Three Clear Winners

The policy conversion option is a clear winner for seniors and their families; providers of long term care services; and for tax payers in every state:

1.     The policy owner and their family are able to convert a life insurance policy and use the proceeds in a Medicaid qualified spend-down to extend the time they are private pay before moving to government assistance.  This allows freedom to choose the form of care they want, as well as financial control and dignity for themselves and their families.

2.     Providers of long-term care services benefit because they are operating under extremely thin margins and private pay dollars translate into higher quality services for everyone under their care.

3.     The longer a person can remain private pay before becoming Medicaid-eligible, the more budget/tax savings for the citizens of every state in America.

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SafteyBunns Offer A Safer Seat With Non Skid Pants

SafetyBunns non-slip pantsOne of our members at The Senior List on Facebook submitted an interesting article about her company called; SafetyBunns!  Obviously we had to inquire about them and found a really creative idea that offers seniors a safer seat at the table… This product offers safety grips on the back of the pant legs so a person doesn’t slip out of their wheelchair, dining room chair or any other slippery sitting surface.  This is a product that solves a very common problem… with a very simple solution!  Think of them as studded snow tires vs. snow tires.  Snow tires can do the job… but Studs give you a little bit more grippage, and a lot more confidence… :)  SafetyBunns pants for seniors

Barb Przybylowicz, (a nurse for over 33 years) developed SafetyBunns after caring for her ailing father.  Her many years of serving seniors (as well as her father) led her to identify a need, and she filled it.  Click thru to read more about SafetyBunns.

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A Letter From A Mother To Her Daughter

Sometimes you see something on social media that really moves you.  This is one of those pieces… You can find it here and there (on the internet) and on facebook, but if you haven’t read it yet- it’s more than worth it.  These moving words are reportedly penned by Guillermo Peña, and translated to English by Sergio Cadena.  The photo is also reportedly taken by Mr. Peña.  Enjoy!
Mother & Daughter by Guillermo Peña

A Letter From A Mother To Her Daughter (by Guillermo Peña)

“My dear girl, the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through. If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don’t interrupt to say: “You said the same thing a minute ago”… Just listen, please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I would read the same story night after night until you would fall asleep.

When I don’t want to take a bath, don’t be mad and don’t embarrass me.
Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get you to take a shower when you were just a girl?

When you see how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to learn and don’t look at me that way… remember, honey, I patiently taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life’s issues every day… the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through.

If I occasionally lose track of what we’re talking about, give me the time to remember, and if I can’t, don’t be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just know in your heart that the most important thing for me is to be with you.

And when my old, tired legs don’t let me move as quickly as before, give me your hand the same way that I offered mine to you when you first walked. When those days come, don’t feel sad… just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love. I’ll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared. With a big smile and the huge love I’ve always had for you, I just want to say, I love you… my darling daughter. “

Original Text in Spanish and Photo by Guillermo Peña. Translation to English by Sergio Cadena
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Caregiving During The Holidays

Holiday Surprise PhotoThe year-end holidays are coming, and I want you to think for a moment about your plans to celebrate.  Rather than do your traditional celebrations, please consider alternative plans and reducing the burden to both honor and support your loved one.  People who are dealing with chronic ailments or who are in pain shouldn’t be expected to go through the holidays as they once did.  No matter how much you (or they) may want “the usual traditions”, you need to take into account reduced stamina and increase frailty.

Tips For Caregiving During The Holidays

Be sure you include your loved one in the planning process, this is very important.  They may want to do everything as it’s always been done… So you’ll need to help your loved one understand that there needs to be new traditions started (in order to account for the place you all find yourselves in now).  That’s not to say you can’t or shouldn’t celebrate!  It’s just a way of remembering that whatever you do, you need to take your loved one’s state-of-health into account.

Here are a few examples of how to reduce stress on your loved one:

  • Instead of a day-long cookie-baking extravaganza that will only exhaust mom, why not pre-bake the cookies?  That way mom can join in the shortened party to decorate them.  She’s still participating, but at a level she can handle.
  • Instead of the big traditional holiday dinner, why not down-size to a series of short events with much lighter menus.  A tea-and-cookies event, wine and appetizers, or even a bring your favorite soup party?
  • Folks who are frail and those suffering from dementia can be overwhelmed by even a handful of familiar faces.  It quickly becomes too much information to recall, too much energy to absorb, and your loved one may respond not with enjoyment, but with highly anxious behaviors.  It’s a good reason to keep your gatherings very small, maybe only two or three people at a time.
  • For the elderly, the process of selecting, buying and wrapping gifts may be too taxing.  Instead of doing a gift exchange, what not use the time to pull out the family photo albums, videos or 8 mm movies?  Other alternatives to spending time exchanging gifts would be to play board or card games that your loved one enjoys, or watch holiday-themed videos.  Our family holds a comic movie film fest.  Laughing together really makes for a great holiday mood.

You get the idea—think small and intimate.  You can still do all the holiday decorating, just have mom supervise from her favorite chair.  You can share and enjoy the music and food of the season.  Just keep your loved one’s state of health in mind and then make appropriate plans.

Blessings, Joanne

Photo: freedigitalphotos.net

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Hearing Aids; What You Need To Know

Siemens hearing aid

The Hearing Aid Market

There’s an awful lot of confusion out there about hearing aids.  This is a $6 billion dollar industry today and CNBC reports it could reach $8 billion by 2018!  Hearing aids can cost consumers between a couple hundred dollars to thousands (ya that’s a plural)!  The secondary market is also booming… Hearing aid adjustments AND service.  So where can you turn for reliable information about hearing aids?  As it turns out… Reliable information is hard to find.  It’s extremely clouded by marketing companies trying to make a buck.  The Senior List did find some quality articles that we’re happy to forward on.  Additionally, we’ll be looking into this market much more closely, and making some recommendations down the road.

Walkman & iPod Add To Hearing Loss Numbers

Just as we’ve watched (and reported on) the medical alert (and fall detection) market, we’re going to begin tracking the hearing aid marketplace much more closely in an effort to help consumers navigate these confusing waters.  With millions of boomers and seniors already in the market for hearing aids, this industry is due to explode.  In a matter of years, those of us that experienced the “Walkman Revolution” will be in our 50′s, 60′s and 70′s.  Things didn’t just stop with the Sony Walkman… they drastically accelerated to Microsoft Zune and the ubiquitous iPod.  If hearing loss is an issue today (and it is a BIG issue) think about what the next decade holds!  This industry will boom in the coming years, and what’s needed is some focus and transparency here.  Opportunities abound for (legitimate) companies that gain the public’s trust and build their brand.  If the value proposition is there, this is one of those rare situations where consumers AND manufacturers will win.

“In a matter of years, those of us that experienced the “Walkman Revolution” will be in our 50′s, 60′s and 70′s.  Things didn’t just stop with the Sony Walkman… they drastically accelerated to Microsoft Zune and the ubiquitous iPod.”

Read More:  For now, here are some great resources to consider before taking the plunge.

Why Won’t They Get Hearing Aids?     The Hunt for an Affordable Hearing Aid     How to Buy a Hearing Aid

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Seniors Benefit from Driver Refresher Courses

Vision, hearing and reaction times begin to slightly lag over the years and coming to grips with this may lead to fear that one day you won’t be able to drive anymore. So, rather than living in denial and waiting for this to inevitably happen, be proactive and take a senior-driver improvement course. Not only will this hone your skills as a older driver, it will also save you a lot of money on insurance rates, as it will prove that you have stayed on top of being a responsible driver.

According to CBS News, one in five drivers will be over the age of 65 within the next 15 years, so senior-driver improvement courses are going to become more common.

Taking Courses can Lead to Big Savings

Insurance companies offer a wide variety of senior-driver improvement courses. Leading companies offer brain-training courses to seniors, and those who pass receive discounts on their otherwise higher premiums, as their elevated age is often considered risky. Various studies conducted by the state of New York have found that drivers in their late 70s have the same number of injury-involved accidents per mile driven as drivers in their early 20s.

Drivers who are 85 years of age and older are injured or killed in crashes more then any other age group — meaning they are more dangerous than a freshly licensed teenager in a sports car. These stats reveal the importance of driver-improvement courses. Those seeking senior car insurance have options to reduce rates and even earn discounts from the American Association of Retired Persons (AARP). A little research can unearth the knowledge needed to pursue the best possible insurance option.

Defensive Driving

Seniors can also improve their driving and insurance prospects through defensive-driving training. It’s the same as the defensive-driving test younger drivers take to keep points off their driving records when they receive a moving violation. The courses are regularly revised with up-to-date information about driving laws and techniques. Courses are available online for those who want to study in the privacy of their own homes. Face-to-face defensive-driving courses are usually located at classrooms with parking lots and traffic cones.

You can also just follow a few rules on your own to improve your driving as a senior. Driving at or just below the speed limit on surface streets will help to lessen your chance of getting into an accident. However, don’t drive too slowly — slow driving is a major cause of accidents. Sit high enough in your car to see at least ten feet in front of you and add a cushion if the seat won’t adjust high enough. Try not to drive at night very often, as your vision will be challenged.

The more you work on your driving, the longer and more safely you will be behind the wheel, enjoying the freedoms of driving a car.

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Renewing An Aging Adult’s Drivers License

IIHS logoThe Senior List published an article recently entitled “Taking The Car Keys From Mom Or Dad“.  It provided some great tips on talking to aging parents about their driving.  We recognize this is a very important (and difficult) conversation to have.  We’d also like to invite you to add your tips and/or stories to the comments section in that article (or this one) to help others that may be seeking advice on the subject.  We found a some nice statistics to share about licensing (renewal) provisions for older drivers.  This illustration below is provided by The Insurance Institute for Highway Safety, a non-profit “dedicated to reducing the losses deaths, injuries and property damage from crashes on the nation’s roads”.  This chart is updated (as of 2012) and provides a state by state look at what’s involved in renewing an aging person’s drivers license.

Drivers License Renewals for Seniors (by state):

licensing renewal options for older drivers

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Programs of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly (PACE)

We all want the best care for our aging loved one, but getting that care can be frustrating. If you have an aging loved one, you know what it’s like to drive your loved one from appointment to appointment; to manage all of their medications; to deal with doctors who don’t talk to one another; and you struggle with leaving your loved one at home, alone and without the supervision, the company andthe  interaction they want (and need).

It doesn’t have to be this way. Thousands of families across America have found a different and better kind of care for their aging loved ones – PACE.  Programs of All-inclusive Care for the Elderly (PACE) provide comprehensive health services for individuals age 55 and over who are determined to be “nursing home eligible” by their state’s Medicaid program. The care model is centered around the belief that it is better for the well-being of seniors with chronic care needs and their families to be served in the community whenever possible.

What do we offer?
PACE services include primary and specialty medical care, medications and medical supplies; all emergency medical, surgical and hospital services; social services; therapies (occupational, physical, speech, recreation, etc.); day health center services; home care; transportation to and from the day center, medical appointments and PACE organized trips; minor modifications to the home to accommodate disabilities; and anything else the program determines is medically necessary to maximize a member’s health.

Who do we serve?
PACE programs enroll only the very frail–a patient population for whom prevention and health promotion makes a significant difference.  Most PACE members have multiple diagnoses, with an average of over 7 diagnoses per member. Among the most common are cardiac problems, diabetes, hypertension, and vascular disease.

How do we do it?
At the core of the PACE care model is the interdisciplinary team. This team is made up of doctors, nurses, therapists, pharmacists, social workers, caregiver aides, chaplains and others. Primary care providers and other caregivers are trained in working with seniors and are focused on treating the whole person. They work together with the participant and any appropriate family members to create an individualized care plan. PACE programs provide high levels of preventive services, such as frequent check-ups, exercise programs, dietary monitoring, programs to increase strength and balance, and more.

PACE programs organize their services in a “PACE Center”. These Centers have a Day Health Center, physician’ offices, nursing, social services and rehabilitation services, along with administrative staff, all in one site. Members attend centers from rarely to daily, depending on their care plans. Most members attend about 2 days per week.

Where do our participants live?
Participants may live in their own home or with a family member and receive in-home support from a PACE employed or contracted caregiver. Others live in some type of care facility such as an adult care home, assisted living facility or residential care facility.

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Asking for Caregiving Help

The one question I hear most often is “How do I get other family members to help with the caregiving?”

Asking for help is as much art as science, but before you start writing off your siblings or other family members as being unwilling to help, you first need to assess your asking ability.

I need help caring for Mom (or Dad)” is not usually going to produce the desired results.  A general question like that, especially if it’s made in the midst of a larger conversation, is difficult to decipher if you’re on the receiving end.  It’s simply too open-ended.  The recipient is more likely to ignore it rather than get mired down in something too large to handle.

On the other hand, a specific question, “When you’re here this summer would you please take Dad on at least two half-day outings?” is both specific and clear.  It’s also more difficult to turn down.  That doesn’t mean that your sibling won’t turn you down however, so you’ll want to have a few skills in your repertoire to help him accept your request.

Here are some ideas:

  • Be specific.  “Could you please bring a meal for Mom and I at 5:00 on Friday?  We need two portion and please don’t bring anything with onion in it, Mom can’t eat onion any more.”  This will work far better than “could you bring a meal by sometime?”
  • Be realistic.  Asking your sibling to drive 300 miles every week so you can have a day off isn’t going to work.  Can he come once a month or once a quarter?  What about having him phone Dad once a week?
  • Be creative.  What are your siblings’ skills?  If they are good with computers, enlist them in making and sending cards on a regular basis, or producing short videos or photos to share with your parent.
  • Be flexible.  If you ask your sister to bathe Mom weekly, but she doesn’t want (or is not able) to, then ask: what would she like to do on a weekly basis for Mom?  The important piece here is not the bathing, but that your sis is engaged in Mom’s care on a regular basis.  Perhaps she’d be willing to take Mom to a movie, shopping, or read to her.  You can hire or find a professional volunteer through organizations like Visiting Nurses Association to help with the bathing.
  • Be inclusive.  A sibling who lives a long distance from home doesn’t have to be automatically excluded from helping.  Ask if they’d be willing to help track finances or insurance or any of the dozen paperwork threads that are wrapped around caregiving.  That 300-mile driving distance can be overcome with technology and your willingness to ask for help, even from a distance.

Blessings, Joanne

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Product Review: Life Alert Medical Alert System

Life Alert has been in business since 1987.  This is the medical alert system endorsed by Dr. C. Everett Koop (former surgeon general).  Life Alert boast an installed base of 150,000 users of their medical alert products (nationwide).

Product Info: Life Alert Medical Alert Systems

  • Name:  Life Alert Medical Alert
  • Website Info: http://www.lifealert.org
  • Auto Fall Detection? :  no
  • Equipment Cost:  $0
  • Monthly Cost:  $49
  • Features:  Waterproof Pendant, Wireless, 24/7 Monitoring

Review: LifeAlert Medical Alert System

The Life Alert medical alert system is an option when looking for traditional medical alert protection for a loved one.  They’ve been in business for a long time, and have a large installed base (they say 150,000 across the US).  One thing to consider when evaluating Life Alert is weather you want to sign the 3 year agreement that is required for service.  Many other medical alert system providers do not have this provision and offer month-to-month agreements.

The Bottom Line: LifeAlert

Another good choice for traditional in-home medical alert technology.  We don’t like the idea of signing long-term contracts for medical alert systems, but as with any of the medical alert system (or fall detection) companies, make sure you read the fine print.

If you’ve used the Life Alert Medical Alert System or know someone who has, please give us your opinion in the comment section below!

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