The More You Know: It is possible to care for a person at home with dementia. To learn more, read my guide to caring for a parent with dementia.
Some memory loss and “slowing” of the brain is natural for older adults, but in some cases, these types of behavior can be signs of dementia or Alzheimer’s. By learning to distinguish early signs of dementia from mere forgetfulness, you can help get ahead of this condition and help ensure the best care for your loved one.
The More You Know: It is possible to care for a person at home with dementia. To learn more, read my guide to caring for a parent with dementia.
As we age, some degree of memory loss is normal. Perhaps your loved one can’t remember the name of an old friend, or they forget a child’s phone number, only to recall the information at a later date. This type of forgetfulness is, in most cases, not a sign of something worse.
However, a person with dementia will often forget pertinent information that impacts their day-to-day abilities. This could include forgetting information such as:
Occasionally losing or misplacing things such as keys, wallets, and other small objects is not necessarily a sign of dementia. After all, people of any age do this to varying degrees. However, if a loved one frequently misplaces their keys, wallet, or other important items, this may be a sign of dementia.
Pay careful attention if your loved one is:
If your loved one consistently forgets the days of the week, time of year, or cannot keep track of dates, it may be a sign of dementia. A doctor’s visit can provide memory tests to determine how serious the symptoms are.
Time-shifting, when a person thinks they are living at an earlier time in their life, frequently occurs in those with dementia. A common sign of time-shifting is when someone continues referencing deceased people as if they were still alive.
Pro Tip: If your loved one is experiencing intense confusion due to dementia, you might want to look into memory care options. Memory care costs are similar to those of assisted living, and these communities provide older adults with the necessary safety measures to address their conditions.
It’s normal to experience some trouble with precise tasks and activities as we age. For example, many football stars and rock climbers have to find more accommodating hobbies as they enter their later years. However, if your loved one finds themselves confused by, or unable to perform, familiar tasks and hobbies, it may indicate something more serious.
This might look like:
Often, the confusion and mental strain that accompany dementia make it more difficult to partake in once-beloved hobbies, causing many people to stop doing things that used to make them happy.
For many, dementia impacts one’s ability to comprehend and utilize language. Pay attention if you notice the following in your loved one:
Feelings like sadness, anger, and confusion are natural. Feelings of depression and isolation are also common in older adults, for a variety of reasons. Possible dementia patients can experience extreme and sudden swings in moods due to confusion and discomfort. Signs of serious depression include:
A key sign in both Alzheimer’s and dementia is affected judgment, which can precede memory loss or eventually more serious damage to the frontal lobe. Signs of serious lapses in judgment could include:
As with many of the signs on this list, you’ll want to pay attention to stark changes in your loved one. While some people are inherently more financially responsible, it’s definitely a red flag when a fiscally prudent parent begins taking out risky loans or making large purchases that would normally be out of character.
Degenerative diseases like dementia and Alzheimer’s first target the frontal lobe, which is responsible for major functions like memory, emotion, and social interaction. As a result, tasks requiring more abstract or critical thinking, such as puzzles or elaborate planning, could become seriously affected. Problem-solving is often tested by doctors making a dementia diagnosis.
For many, the effects of dementia cause people to withdraw. If it’s difficult to follow a conversation or difficult to remember the directions of a favorite hike, then a person is much less likely to partake in these activities –– for fear of both embarrassment and safety. Because of this, many people with dementia withdraw from activities altogether.
Look out for the following in your loved one:
The long-term, progressive effects of dementia and Alzheimer’s can be overwhelming, but it’s important to remember that there is help available. If you are concerned about your loved one, it is essential to seek help as soon as possible.
Your first step should be to learn all you can about dementia. For starters, we recommend the following guides: