Gifts for Caregivers

With the holidays quickly approaching, I have been asked by clients and family members alike what the best gifts for caregivers are this season.  After some reflection about all the things caregivers do for the people they are taking care of, I made a few adjustments to my answer.

There is no amount of money that will ever fully recognize the amount of stress, love, and care that any family or professional caregiver goes through each and every day.  However, here are a few ideas that may help the caregivers in your life feel recognized, appreciated and pampered.

Private Caregivers

I think of these caregivers as the folks who work for in-home care, home health, and hospice companies.  They may also be private caregivers who work for themselves or through a caregiver referral agency.  If they work for a private company, do check on company policies for gift-giving.

  • Massage, Manicure, and/or Pedicure gift certificates
  • Gift certificate to a nice restaurant
  • Movie tickets
  • Anything to help facilitate relaxation and pampering

Family Caregivers

Did you know that 4 in 10 U.S. adults cares for a sick or elderly loved one?  That's a whole lot of care being provided without any paycheck at all.  Family caregivers often feel overwhelmed, under-appreciated, and pulled in many different directions by work and family obligations.

  • Offer to go shopping
  • Cook a meal
  • Clean the house
  • Lunch or dinner delivery
  • Let them know how much you appreciate everything they are doing!
  • Respite- can you help them have a day/night off?

Facility Caregivers

Facility caregivers are anyone who works in a nursing facility, long term care facility, assisted living, memory care, retirement community, adult care home or any other residential setting for seniors.  These caregivers are definitely underpaid for the amazing work they do.  Often, the companies they work for also have very strict gift-giving policies in place that can make it difficult to express gratitude.  As with private caregivers, check the company policies on gift-giving first.

  • Letter of recognition- This is one of the most personal gifts I can think of for a facility caregiver.  A letter touting their amazing skills with your loved one, the care and compassion they bring to work everyday, or they way that they bring a smile to the resident's faces that they care for will go a long ways in showing your appreciation.  This letter could be given to an administrator as well to be put in the caregiver's employee file.
  • Donation to the facility or organization the caregiver works for- Many care facilities will have an “employee bonus” fund that is split amongst the employees or direct care staff.
  • Donate on behalf of the caregiver- If there is no bonus fund to contribute to and/or the gift-giving policies are tight, donate to a non-profit or cause like the Alzheimer's Association, Parkinson's Association, or Senior Wish Foundation in your area.  I found this great site that rates and links to charities if you need ideas.
  • Food, Coffee, Teas for the breakroom- and make it the good stuff.

Gifts for Caregivers: Not just for the Holidays!

Don't just say thank you at the holidays, say it year round!  Let the caregivers in your life know how much they are appreciated.  A smile, pat on the back, a listening ear, and a willingness to help out are always welcome.  Don't forget each November is National Caregivers Month, another special time to recognize the caregivers in your life.

Have any gift ideas we missed?  Add your thoughts in the comments below!

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  1. Amie, thanks for your good advice on caregiver recognition. Wanted you to know (please share as appropriate) that the Dementia Society of America provides a free certificate of recognition award to any nominee put forth to us. It’s a great way to honor their selfless role in caring for a loved one or someone within their care. Paid, or unpaid, caregiving can be both stressful and stimulating… we recognize/appreciate the former and celebrate the latter.- Kevin Jameson, Volunteer. President
    1. Love this Kevin! We’ll make sure our readers know about this. May reach out to you for a quote or two 🙂 — A

  2. My company Caregivers Rock provides In home pampering for the caregiver who doesn’t want to leave their loved one, but still needs some personal TLC.
    1. I work for a company called Caring Together in Hope, that owns Amy’s Place. Amy’s Place is a home in Georgia that caregivers can come to with their loved ones who has dementia. The caregivers are in one room socializing, listening to a lecture, or just being entertained while their loved ones are safe in another room being engaged in other activities. I would be interested in knowing what kinds of things do you do for the caregivers. How do you help them? What kinds of things do you help them with on a daily, weekly basis.? Do you have any suggestions for me?
      1. Hi Cheryl – My answer won’t do your question any justice, but here are a few thoughts. Caregiving can be such a thankless job at times, that many folks just want to know that what they do matters. More times than not, caregivers of all kinds need a break so they can tend to themselves. Self care is so often forsaken for the care of others, and this can lead to mental and physical harm.

        Sounds like Amy’s Place is on to something very special. Thanks for sharing your story, and come back often. We love to hear from our community members.

    2. That’s phenomenal! I wish that was available for me…i care for my bedbound momma all but 16 hours a week…having any pampering would be such a blessing.

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